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I read your article about why men look at other women and tried to get my head around it. I find it impossible to get my head around the concept that it is okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same. I have asked my boyfriend of 3 and a half years: if I got off on another man while having sex with him would it bother him.
My ex used to do that shit, she was fueled by male attention. She actively did shit like that to cultivate a stable of orbiters who all hoped they were next in line. I agree. Personally, I would not be. However, this sort of stuff really irks me. However, I would not be okay with her posting intentionally sexy pictures to get attention. But I am an extreme case. My girlfriend and I have a throw away where we post nudes and of us fucking. We also fuck in public places trying to not get caught and on omegle for strangers. We are exhibitionists and I love to show her off and have no fear of losing her to someone else.
How do you feel about that. Thanks for commenting on my blog. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. A few years ago I ended up in a wheelchair. Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. Long story short, everyone is dead on. This post and the comments are an eye opener. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds.